Help, I am watching a competent rower with a top erg score and good seat racer from our squad get dropped. The coach says it is because she’s “not developed as an athlete” or applied her ability.
Well I am guessing you don’t think she should have been dropped. Sadly it happens.
Crew selection should be objective but there are lots of reasons why others may have got picked before her. Rather than try to change the decision now (the coach will only dig in heels and resist – unless the seat racing process was clearly unfair), I’d focus on next season.
Rowing in a ‘long game’ and the determined athletes win out – but it’s a bitter pill.
I had a personal situation when I got cheated in a seat race when the coach told the crews to swap lanes in a flowing river, so we were out of the stream and then claimed that was a ‘win’ for the other girl. When in the final race, my crew beat the other girl who’d just been swapped with me, I was told that race “didn’t count”. So I felt robbed and still hold a grudge against the coach who decided it and the assistant coach who knew what was going on and didn’t stand up and say anything.
My objection was that they pretended they wanted to run a fair trial – if they’d just said we are picking the crew we like and
you’re not in it. Which would at least have been hones, maybe I would have felt less bitter.
So there’s a couple of things to do
- for the coach / club side. Was the selection made on a measured basis and can they prove that they made the right choice?
- did the coach break the news to the athlete in an appropriate way (language, explaining the rowing pathway takes time etc)?
From the rowers point of view
- tell her to read the Nicky Coles two part interview (part 1) and (part 2)
- tell her to buy Assault on Lake Casitas (the most inspirational rowing book ever)
- ask a local high performance coaching team if she can come out in a coach boat and watch the girls and guys training, have a coffee with them after and hear their stories so she can align her experience with theirs. Get her to ask them if they ever had set backs, how did they mentally approach and overcome them and what did they do next?