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10 things mentally strong athletes don’t do

Mentally strong people have healthy habits. They manage their emotions, thoughts, and behaviors in ways that set them … read more

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Mentally strong people have healthy habits. They manage their emotions, thoughts, and behaviors in ways that set them up for

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success in life. Check out these things that mentally strong athletes, coaches and coxswains don’t do so that you too can become  mentally resilient.

1. They Don’t Waste Time Feeling Sorry for Themselves

Mentally strong athletes don’t sit around feeling sorry about their circumstances or how others have treated them. Instead, they take responsibility for their role in life and understand that life isn’t always easy or fair.  So you didn’t do a perfect erg test – what are you going to do about it?

2. They Don’t Give Away Their Power

They don’t allow others to control them, and they don’t give someone else power over them. They don’t say things like, “My coach makes me feel bad,” because they understand that they are in control over their own emotions and they have a choice in how they respond.

3. They Don’t Shy Away from Change

Mentally strong athletes don’t try to avoid change. Instead, they welcome positive change and are willing to be flexible. They understand that change is inevitable and believe in their abilities to adapt.  They also try out new things because they might be an improvement.

4. They Don’t Waste Energy on Things They Can’t Control

You won’t hear a mentally strong person complaining over the music in the gym or traffic jams. Instead, they focus on what they can control in their lives. They recognise that sometimes, the only thing they can control is their attitude.

5. They Don’t Worry About Pleasing Everyone

Mentally strong athletes and coaches recognise that they don’t need to please everyone all the time.  They don’t always get to row with their friends. They’re not afraid to say no or speak up when necessary. They strive to be kind and fair, but can handle other people being upset if they didn’t make them happy.

6. They Don’t Fear Taking Calculated Risks

They don’t take reckless or foolish risks, but don’t mind taking calculated risks. Mentally strong people spend time weighing the risks and benefits before making a big decision, and they’re fully informed of the potential downsides before they take action.  So if you choose to sprint early in a race, and risk running out of energy before the finish, they know they may get beaten but they also know they may win a close race.

7. They Don’t Dwell on the Past

Mentally strong athletes don’t waste time dwelling on the past and wishing things could be different. They acknowledge their past and can say what they’ve learned from it.  However, they don’t constantly re-live bad experiences or fantasise about the glory days. Instead, they live for the present and plan for the future.

8. They Don’t Make the Same Mistakes Over and Over

Mentally strong athletes accept responsibility for their behaviour and learn from their past mistakes. As a result, they don’t keep repeating those mistakes over and over again. Instead, they move on and make better decisions in the future.

9. They Don’t Resent Other People’s Success

Mentally strong athletes and coaches can appreciate and celebrate other people’s success. They don’t grow jealous or feel cheated when others surpass them. Instead, they recognise that success comes with hard work, and they are willing to work hard for their own chance at success.

10. They Don’t Give Up After the First Failure

Mentally strong people don’t view failure as a reason to give up. Instead, they use failure as an opportunity to grow and improve. They are willing to keep trying until they get it right.  Olympians frequently cite failures as their motivators.

BONUS – two more things mentally strong rowers do

11. They Don’t Feel the World Owes Them Anything

Mentally strong people don’t feel entitled to things in life. They weren’t born with a mentality that others would take care of them or that the world must give them something. Instead, they look for opportunities based on their own merits.

12. They Don’t Expect Immediate Results

Whether they are working on improving their sculling or getting fit for the new season, mentally strong people don’t expect immediate results. Instead, they apply their skills and time to the best of their ability and understand that real change takes time.

Hat Tip to LifeHack for the original article.

About Rebecca Caroe
Rebecca is the host of RowingChat podcast and is a masters athlete and coach. Passionate about helping others enjoy the sport as much as she does. View all posts from Rebecca Caroe

7 thoughts on “10 things mentally strong athletes don’t do

  1. Best thing I’ve read in 2014. Every good athlete you know (and some poor ones, too) already knows every bit of it, and almost everyone forgets every bit of it or just fails to act on it with frightening regularity. Reminds me of the ten commandments on both scores. Maddeningly, devilishly tricky to live up to.

  2. 13. They help other people, even if they are their competitors

    One of the more important one this IMO, I think if you’ve managed to get yourself to a good level and you’re mentally strong then there’s NK reason why you wouldn’t help out others from time to time, even if they are people who you will end up competing against. Looks at the top level scullers for example, often they share information about erg scores and have training sessions / technical discussions with people who they will be racing for a world medal against, where as often at club level athketes are told not talk about scores you get or to train with other crews

  3. Mentally strong athletes really don’t need a list like this.

    Are you sure that this list was not entirely lifted from a website advising divorced women of a certain age?

    Just a guess.

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